Virgins are probably going to feel some apprehension about what will happen on their wedding night. You should not to be worried, it’s very natural. Here are tips and advice to help things go smoothly.

Communicate before the wedding night
“Are you feeling nervous at all about our wedding night?” choose a quiet moment to ask your spouse. Talk about what your hopes and fears are. If you are too nervous to bring up the subject of sex, take time, change the topic and discuss about different topics to change up the mood. When you both will be easy then try again to discuss.

Will she bleed? Will it be painful?
When a woman loses her virginity, it’s possible for it to be a little bloody or painful. However, it shouldn’t last for too long, and it is almost never very serious. To make things easier, make sure there’s plenty of foreplay before you try penetration. You’ll also want to have a good lubricant. Even if you use a lubricated condom, you’ll want to use extra lube. And, if you’re afraid of bleeding on the hotel sheets, bring a towel with you, or your own sheets.

Will he be able to maintain an erection? What happens if he can’t?
The pressure of the wedding night can be too much for many men. Spend some time kissing, and fondling each other. Perhaps make a game out of how many different body parts you can kiss, or be a little more serious by talking about the wedding, your love for each other, and milestones ahead of you.

Will I be any good? How can I wow my new husband or wife?
You are likely to be a little clumsy and to feel a little goofy. Take things slowly, and try to listen to your partner. Find out what feels good, and what doesn’t. Don’t be afraid to ask! But don’t concentrate on how mind-blowing (or not!) the physical feelings are. Instead try to be gentle with one another, and focus on how amazing it is to finally be in each others arms as a married couple.